I Paid for My Own House, Now I’m Forced to Give It Away to My MIL / Bright Side

“Hello Bright sideand

I am (29f) currently pregnant for 3 months with my fiancée (35 meters). We were together for 4 years, we participated for a little more than a year, and until recently, I really thought we were building a strong thing. You know, the family, the future, the business.

A few months ago, we decided to buy a house together. Nothing crazy – just a humble and comfortable place we can grow. We divide the costs with it 40/60. I even sold my little apartment and put All my savings In this place.

We collected everything for the batch, and we fell on the mortgage together, and I really thought we were about to start our lives as a real team. He kept saying things like, “This is our first big step as a family,” “ And I was everything.

Fast forward until last week: It shows me a picture of our home and falls in the conversation His mother You should start packing because it will move to the new home soon. I froze.

I: “Wait, what do you mean she Moving? “
for him: “Yes, lukewarm, I told you – I fell on the deal, which means that we got the home for her. She was renting her entire life, it’s time for her own. We are a family now, and this is what families do. This is our first good work as a couple!”

or. What?

Apparently, on his mind, we bought us Our first house Together so for him Mom – which is completely capable, not sick, and has not lived with us before – can move and live there alone. Meanwhile, did you plan for us?
He says we can stay in his father’s place today and “save” our own home. recently.

I am sitting there, pregnant, hormonal, and completely blind.

When I told him that this was not what I agreed to, I thought this house was for weHe got the defense. He said I was cold and selfish, and that if I really wanted to be part of his family, I understand that his mother comes first – she “needs it more.” He even pulled all “We will have time to get our own place, but it grows.”

I feel that I was being signed for a real estate mortgage for a woman that I have never agreed to buy a house for him.

And now I am stuck. Do I walk away and start a legal battle on this house while you were pregnant with his child?

Do I stay, I marry, and I hope this is not a preview of how the rest of our lives go – with huge decisions made Each of us Without consulting me?

And do not make me start guilty. I required This family. I required This future. Now, it seems as if I was watching it exploding before we start.

Dear, I don’t even know what I ask here. ratification? advice? Reality examination?

Do you marry someone who gave your first home to your mother behind your back … while you are pregnant with his child?

Because now, I feel I am carrying a child With a stranger“